Some years ago I became devastated when learning that I had disappointed my church in the way I handled a volunteer job. It nearly put be under the "wagon wheels" and filled me with disappointment with myself. It has been a difficult recovery process. I never fully recovered, but just got on with life as it was. Today I had an eye-opening moment, and I thank God for it.
In reading and journaling Galatians 4:16, it was revealed to me a better way to handle criticism and its disappointment. I share it with you here below.
The scripture reads, "Have I now become your enemy by telling you the truth?" Paul uses this clear statement in a letter to the Galatian Church, because he rebuked them for turning away from the true teachings of Christ. They had been scolded, and the scolding hurt. And their response to being hurt was not to listen to him, and show their disappointment.
The study portion in my bible stated, "Human nature hasn't changed much; we still get angry when we're scolded. But don't write off someone who challenges you. There may be truth in what he or she says. Receive his or her words with humility; carefully think them over. If you discover that you need to change an attitude or action, take steps to do it.
I revised it in my own words as this: When you hear the "truth": 1) Stay quiet until humility and gratitude sets in. 2)Be thankful that this person has felt free to challenge you. 3) Be bold enough to state those things you have done, being certain those tasks had been asked of you. 4)Apologize for misunderstanding your duties and/or not being aware of them in order to accomplish them. 5)Accept the decision made and offer to help whoever takes over. 6)Thank those in charge for having offered you the opportunity in the first place and state your sorrow at disappointing them.
And finally, do as I am just about to do........7)Thank you, Lord, for revealing to me a better way to handle disappointment and criticism.
Hope you never need to use these steps and that all you attempt will be met with joy and thanksgiving!
Today is a Good day, let us rejoice and be glad in it!!
Fondly, Jo
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